Black woman of the Feminist/BWE type groups (or cults) really have not matured intellectually or learned from their past mistakes. I see NO growth in them (mentally).
Part of the reason why you are always finding yourself in bad predicaments with people is because you are not using discernment with anyone who is not Black. See, the majority of you have such low self esteem, that the first compliment or sign of acknowledgement someone (particularly a man) of another race gives, you immediately attach yourself to them and you start obsessing over these people in a slave-like manner; only until they show you their ass like they’ve always been doing, then you cry about “Misogynoir“.
A lot of you have such little belief and value in yourselves that you feel worthless if you are not socializing with non Blacks.
Learn how to psychologically and emotionally DETACH yourself from people.
Learn how to STAND ON YOUR OWN instead of always trying to be accepted by everyone.
Learn how to stop becoming so comfortable with people too quick.
Learn how to stop disclosing so much personal information especially with those you barely know.
Learn how to stop putting so much value in others so much that you become dependent on them.
Everyone sees this and this is why they keep using and playing you in the same manner that Black males use and play you.
A lot of you are 30+ and are WAY TOO OLD to be crying about people not liking you. You are not a middle school student. GROW UP.
Realize, understand, and accept that the entire world practices violence against Black women.
Realize, understand, and accept that trying to assimilate into other groups is just as detrimental as trying to impress Black males.
You will only keep finding yourself in disadvantageous situations.