I’m going to make this short and sweet.
A MAJOR problem I have with Black females who consider themselves “Feminists” or BWE is the lack of ability and willingness to change how they operate in this society. Certain interactions, associating with the wrong people, going in the wrong places, being in certain places at the wrong time, not doing research, background checks, vetting, or looking at historical evidence can lead to you facing Misogynoir. A lot of you keep putting yourselves back in the same situations that YOU KNOW didn’t/don’t work out for you, then you complain as if someone is supposed to feel sorry for you then save you. I get the vibe that many of you get a kick out of being the victim.
Am I blaming other Black women?
Hell yeah! Because YOU KNOW that as a Black women, you have a HUGE target on your back in this society, yet however you keep going places, *working jobs, & interacting with people who you KNOW by historical and current, everyday evidence have already shown you their ass. And when the OBVIOUS happens to you, you act surprised, then play victim. Stop doing that.
*working jobs-I understand that your workplace (AKA your source of income) is not easily avoidable and I don’t TOTALLY fault other Black women for this. Finding a/another job nowadays can be extremely hard. I’m speaking more specifically about going to clubs, nail salons, businesses with bad customer service (specifically directed towards Black women and girls), events that center around other groups of people, etc. I’ll get more into this later.